This episode sticks out in that annoying
niggling way. It is, like the babyshower episode, one about the
insecurity that Carrie and her friends feel about not living their lives
in a traditional way. They feel like married people attack them, judge
them, and are generally either totally jealous or pitying of their
single lives. I get it, I get feeling like a weird, strange outcast in
society. I don't get or like the way they handle that insecurity. I
mean the episode is called "the Bay of Married Pigs"-- implying a cold
war of sorts. It is needlessly divisive. It is divisive in a way that
causes Carrie and her friends (minus Charlotte who *does* want to get
married someday) to define their lives around being single, which causes
a self-replicating loop of meeting and dating unavailable men who don't
want to get married and then complaining about these men who will never
marry them, meanwhile *dumping* the man who wants to get married
*because* he wants to get married. -_- You can't have it both ways,
Carrie.
So, let's get into the plot, shall we?
It begins
with narration about Carrie visiting her married friends Patience and
Peter (heh, Peter) in the Hamptons. She is telling the couple some
spicy story about meeting some guy and doing some things, pretty fun
stuff, and saying that it is her job as the couple's "single" friend to
tell tidbits about her sexual escapades.. OK. Whatever. I don't define
my friends by their couple status, usually there is something else
there. You know, like the other careers she mentioned before she
mentioned "single friend"-- designers, accountants.. no knitters
though. There is a lack of crafty friends in her life I think. But
fine, her hobby is hooking up with people, there are worse things to do
with your time.
The next morning, she is surprised by Peter's
penis in the hall. This scene is bizarre, funny, but mostly bizarre.
Carrie tells Patience about Peter's.. well, peter, and Patience kicks
her out of the house. I always thought that she was kicked out because
Patience was embarrassed by Peter. But in the following scene, the girls
seem to think that Patience is jealously guarding her husband from the
seductive single woman "who can sleep with anyone, anytime"
They
make funny jokes about Peter's rather large pepper mill sized dick and
then talk some more about how married people always make them feel like
outcasts and pity them for their lack of couple-dom. Pity them, and
call them whores and are totally jealous since married people just want
to be single again. I don't even know. Like I said, divisive.
In
the next scene, Carrie is talking with Stanford about the issue. He
talks about how even in the gay community people are hooking up and
getting married in Hawaii. ah, life before gay marriage was legal. how
quaint! They are stopped in the street by one of Carrie's friends we
never see again, who is with his new "life partner" and they ask Carrie
if she'll donate one of her eggs. This whole scene is confusing, and
illustrates, at least to Carrie, that married people don't even see
singles as people, just egg farms. Now, to me, it just seems like her
friends are a little desperate and have lost that "appropriate casual conversation to have in the street" filter. lol.
Anyway:
In
the next scene, Miranda is at a sports field to play softball at some
company softball game. This is a thing, I'm sure. Some guy brings
Miranda a date-- and surprise! It's a lesbian! Miranda's like.. I'm not
gay, I'm single! and the guy is bashful, and I find it deliciously
ironic since Cynthia Nixon *is* gay. But Miranda is nice and tells Sid
that she isn't gay, and they have fun playing ball. Miranda's boss
congratulates her on the game and gives her and Sid an in to his inner
circle-- she takes advantage of this, prolonging her "relationship" with
the woman in order to do so. Sid is quiet about this, but I bet she's
seething, lol.
Random aside: every single one of the four women
will end up skirting the line of lesbianism at least once. I love it.
Once, my stepmom was talking to me about sex and the city, and she said
in a vague kind of way "the one who is with the lesbians" and I had to
rack my brain, I mentioned every single one of them before I realized
she meant the one I didn't mention. ><
Miranda feels like
her boss wants to invite her in and get to know her because she is
"figured out" that is, gay, not single. Apparently single people
confuse marrieds. This plot is confusing. In the end, Miranda comes
clean to her boss, saying that she isn't gay, but felt that she should
take advantage to bend his ear about the firm and get close. ah,
networking. I don't know why her lack of coupledom would deem her unfit
to get along with her boss in a casual way, but apparently it does.
She kisses Sid in the elevator on the way out of the dinner party, and
laments her straightness. As if being in a couple would solve all her
problems. Sid is like. yeah, you're straight.. stop trying me on, I'm
not a pantsuit!
This is what I imagine when I think of pantsuits.
...
Carrie's deepening plot:
Carrie
goes on a lunch date with another of her couple friends and is
"surprise" set up with the couple's friend-- the Marrying Guy. She gets
to know him a bit and realizes that he wants to get married and decides
to try him on anyway. This guy seems nice, he recently bought an
apartment, and has nothing negative about him, except that he wants to
get married.
While Miranda is off at that dinner party,
Charlotte, Sam and Carrie attend the Marrying Guy's housewarming party,
and it is full of married couples. Sam feels betrayed and goes off to
drink tequila shots and lament that she's slept with many many of the
men there, thought she'd never see them again, and hates being in parties
with couples because the women are always jealously guarding their
husbands from her so she can't talk to anyone. I would feel left out
too. poor Sam. lol. Charlotte takes Sam home since she is so drunk,
and Sam ends up hooking up with Charlotte's doorman. Charlotte finds
the doorman in the middle of the night in her apartment and she asks him
to leave. He does, but not before opening one of her doors for her.
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Meanwhile, Carrie dumps the Marrying Guy because he
wants to get married. She doesn't know what she wants, she says. He
says, in a dejected way, that every single woman he's been out with
recently won't date him because he wants to get married. Which would be
frustrating. Carrie sets him up with Charlotte and she dumps him in
the end because he likes the wrong China pattern. -_-
Charlotte
has that problem that will become clear in later episodes, she is driven
by fantasy a lot. She envisions her perfect life with her perfect
china patterns. I really do love the way the show writers have Charlotte
grow and develop as a character through the entirety of the show. It is perfection.
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These
recaps have been coming quickly for now, I have them written up to the
middle of the second season on my personal journal. So after I've caught
up, they'll come about once a week or so.
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